K Lube Powder 7oz / 200g, Made in UK

Yep, oil based lubes can indeed damage your silicone-based toys. In my opinion the best bang for your buck as far as lubes go would be K-Lube which comes in a powder form. You mix it with water to your desired consistency and it lasts forever. It has its own preservatives and dispersing agents that make it easy to mix large batches for later use. Personally I mix it in a bottle like this which makes it super easy to dispense later, whether I'm applying it directly or filling a lube launcher. Anal lubes tend to be thicker than regular lubes because your sphincter constricts a lot more than a vagina would so you generally want something that'll hold on to the surface you're applying it to so that it doesn't just rub right off.

https://www.amazon.com/Lube-Powder-7oz-200g-Made/dp/B0BR8J8YNN This is what we use. It's nice because you can kinda adjust the consistency to how you like it and you can make a ton of it

https://a.co/d/080O1Fo9 It is water based. But you control the consistency you want. https://www.mrhankeystoys.com/traffic-cone-anal-trainer-series-six-sizes?srsltid=AfmBOopvtUXoUabwKDJcHIu-QqwJqxpVnpgwdOsfnvGcfQiJQTmbzDvB And https://toppedtoys.com/collections/the-grip I like the softer ones for longer term play.

This is what I use, and I bought two of them: https://www.amazon.com/Insertion-Masturbators-TOHERXIZ-Textured-Masturbation/dp/B0BZKT93Z1/145-7985438-6428723?pd_rd_w=JAjkH&content-id=amzn1.sym.da0b205c-8cc7-4a8d-9d0a-8ed3705890a2&pf_rd_p=da0b205c-8cc7-4a8d-9d0a-8ed3705890a2&pf_rd_r=QWC7DT6HZQ7V6NYY9PCR&pd_rd_wg=W6dTt&pd_rd_r=a6cf60ce-52c2-48fe-aba1-80cd630df2fd&pd_rd_i=B0BZKT93Z1&psc=1 The Fleshlight is too tight for me to fit inside easily, but this one (above) accommodated my dick very easily and has the best feel. You will need lubricant to go with it - I use K Lube, which is inexpensive, but you have to mix it with water. Mix small batches at a time, and it could last you a lifetime.