Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction

Ah, some men really are creepy. Like I know a female bartender who describes the first words too many men say as being crazy sexual. And then, as to deficiencies, a man or woman should first make sure they have followed the best practices for attracting those they want to attract. For men, get fit, groom yourself, dress like you’re successful, speak slowly with a deeper tone, make eye contact, smile, etc. (To go above and beyond, learn the psychology of what tends to attract women to men based on women’s answers in psych studies and also check out Mark Manson’s Attracting Women Through Honesty.) If you do all that, it decreases the chance of negative interactions, and increases the chance of neutral interactions becoming positive.