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First of all, this is so relatable! What I have found works for me is if I wear a very soft T-shirt and then either a jacket, blazer vest or something over the top of it to make it look more polished. Here is the brand of shirt I tend to buy: https://a.co/d/01v5LvW2 and then I can wear this with a jacket or a blazer. The other thing I do is I have found a fabric that I like from Loft and I will buy basically any shirt in that same fabric that matches one of my three pants colors. The other thing I do is when I find something I like, I stock up to make sure I always have it. I have found that it helps me to determine what my threshold is and then how to work within that. I also wear my clothes baggier, which I know isn’t great, but it is what it is at this point.