I will share two things with you that I often share with others on here: Perhaps the best book about using the Myers-Briggs wisdom in your intimate relationships (ie, with a partner) is “Just Your Type” by Barron and Tieger. It has unique sections of tips for every possible couple, such as an ESTJ and an ISFJ pair. In that section, for example, it will have five tips for the ESTJ that are the ESTJ‘s natural blind spots, and that also happen to be five things that are very important to making the ISFJ in particular feel loved, and then it will have a separate list of five tips for the ISFJ that are their blind spots and that also are very important to making the ESTJ in particular feel very loved. So, maybe you are an INTJ (I don’t know). It is important to the INTJ when coming home to have a couple of minutes to themselves to emotionally reset from the outer world (beyond the home). But the ENFP is likely to jump on their spouse with big wet kisses the moment the spouse comes home. So, in the section for ENFP-INTJ couples, it tells the ENFP to give their partner some emotional and physical space when they come home. https://www.amazon.com/Just-Your-Type-Relationship-Personality/dp/0316845698 2. I made a free self-help website, www.freeselfhelp.org . It is completely free. Once there, scroll down to the Relationships section. The document on tips for holistic intimacy with your partner is the best free document on the Internet for sex tips. I explain there why I wrote it. ✌️
To see how the interaction is different, I highly recommend this book. It has a section for ENFP-INTJ couples with unique tips for the two to keep in mind and a separate section for ENFP-INTP couples with a different list of tips. https://www.amazon.com/Just-Your-Type-Relationship-Personality/dp/0316845698
It is an excellent book. The authors’ other books on using the MBTI are great too, such as “Do What You Are” for career happiness. A full chapter of great tips for INTPs! https://www.amazon.com/Just-Your-Type-Relationship-Personality/dp/0316845698 Also, Heidi Priebe’s book is great: https://www.amazon.com/Comprehensive-ENFP-Survival-Guide/dp/0692532501 Also, I made a completely free self-help website, www.freeselfhelp.org . Don’t miss the document for holistic intimacy with your partner in the Relationships section as you scroll down the site. 😉 It’s not that we don’t like other ENFPs but we tend to be bored by them and each one of us wants to be the excited visionary (but we have different realms where our vision is). So, I can only listen for so long in an empathetic way to another ENFP talk about their passionate realm that they think is utterly fascinating but which I don’t. lol And in relationships with each other, things get hot and heavy very fast but then burn out faster than birch bark.

