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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and I want to believe but a part of me doesn't. Especially if he is 21. And just an FYI, I suffer from the same problem he does. I cum way too fast and it takes me several hours to "reload". So with that said, I focus on my wife and her pleasure. Making sure she gets off well before I do. I don't even enjoy the orgasm. For me it's seeing her cum and feel good that gets me "off". I am a full spectrum lover so nothing is off of table. The next part may be TMI but it sounds like you guys are speed running married life with kids at 21. Respect because kids are hard but you'll need to work on keeping the sexy sexy bit going because kids will suck the life out of you. First buy this: pau yuen tong balm Amazon.com: Pau Yuen Tong Old Chinese Balm by FH : Health & Household And tell him to put it on his dick an hour before you guys want to have sex. He only needs a little bit around the brim of the fireman's cap. Right before sex, wash it off with soap and water. It may sting or burn a bit but that's normal. This will take care of his premature ejaculation. He's going to have to work to bust a nut but all good husbands should work their darndest to get their wives off multiple times. Next, trim your kitty if you haven't. Just with a buzzer, don't shave. Now, you need to be a bit demanding for what you want. Don't worry, it'll be hot. Put the kids to bed and get yourself a sexy slip. Tell your husband you want him to eat your pussy. If he's like, "ehh", grab his face, kiss him, and then tell him to shut up and do what he is told. Force his head down and tell him to lick like a good boy. See if he can figure it out. If he's struggling tell him where your clit is and to lick there while he fingers you. Make him work for it until you cum at least once. Then let him fuck you. He'll probably nut in 30 seconds like he normally does but at least you got yours first. Afterwards, look him in the eye and say, "you want this, you're going to get me off first no exceptions." And next time you're out and about, dress sexy and let other men give you side eyes while your man is around. You don't need to flirt, but your man should be reminded that he needs to make sure the mother of his children is well satisfied sexually.