Fair Play: Reese's Book Club: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live)

u/ThrowRA_BarbieDoll, please, please look at Fair Play, it will help you and your partner figure out how to equitably divide the household labor. The big trick is that once someone is responsible for something they are responsible for 100% of it. If your husband takes on responsibility for laundry, that includes know when he needs to replace detergent, for example. Not only is there a book, but there are workbooks, playing cards, tons of resources to help you two navigate managing the home and children in a way that is equitable for both of you. Please note I'm saying equitable b/c it's not about 50/50--it's about what's equitable for your family given who is working out of the home, health concerns, capabilities, etc. Good luck!