CMF Buds Pro 2 Wireless Earbuds with Smart Dial, 50dB Hybrid Noise Cancelling Earbuds Wireless Bluetooth 5.3, 11mm Bass with LDAC, 6 Hi-Res Audio Mics, 43H Playtime, Fast Charging Case, Blue

That sounds like you've had a round of bad luck!!! Are you looking for something that nestles into the ear itself? Do you want/need stems? I had this pair of galaxy buds +, that sit in the ear with no stem. They were insanely good. I had them for 8 yrs before one started to not hold a charge as long as the other. But that was 8 yrs. I have the new Buds Pro 4, and they're great, but my favorite are the CMF Buds Pro 2. You should check out everything they do. They're amazing to me for $37. https://a.co/d/04yG8ue5