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Sauvignon_Blonde posted on r/sfbitcheswithtaste4d
This doesn't answer your question but as someone who experienced the same thing I HIGHLY recommend reading the book, "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life". https://www.amazon.com/Leave-Cheater-Gain-Life-Survival/dp/0762458968/ref=sr_1_1?crid=XYDAP0FXOZBL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.uGREEzxBveuURee-_Hc5Safwzev72DzJfjh3MPr0J6-sLD8DxSIlFLtq2SSBa0daFJXP27JCRQ21JJXIqLPFgMiWLQdzhLm0cqR266rOd2ymt-MHZ4LWq58VhAZMCYsYpYaxFNaC0lh28icAF3FwXi_2_nvmfmWX__DyM56_GDxFQmxT0MeX8kuf2T0I8OfWGw5H0UejUnyVEggwJyeb85LCMb_xko-7eVlKGC2Kujs.Zb0HN2ct9rxiAogD6unNvY4lec3PyZInn0j2Z51AkJw&dib_tag=se&keywords=leave+a+cheater+gain+a+life+book&qid=1782497485&sprefix=leave+a+chea%2Caps%2C203&sr=8-1 I'm so sorry you're in this position. Sending you a big virtual hug.