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OP. Please stop using your hairbrush. I don't know how old you are and you don't have to tell me, but if you're old enough to do any work, whether it be a real job, dog walking, mowing people's lawns, asking parents for money, etc, please do that any buy an actual dildo. They're made of materials that are safe for you and guaranteed will feel better than a hair brush, and cause less bleeding. Since hair brush handles are hard, maybe have textured handles, and rigid shapes. Any time you stick something into your vagina, it needs to be cleaned beforehand, to prevent bacteria from entering, causing any sort of yeast growth or other infections. You should always pee after any insertion as that will decrease the risks of getting a UTI. During sex/ insertion, your partner or your object can spread bacteria from your vagina/ anus toward the opening of your urethra (Located within the inner folds, the hole right above the vagina and below the clitoris) which makes it's way into your urinary tract, causing an infection. Peeing directly after any intercourse/ insertion flushes that bacteria out before it makes it to your bladder. UTIs hurt. Avoid them. The bleeding is either from your hymen or microtears in your vagina. When something is inserted, if there's not enough lubrication there it can cause tiny tears/ abrasions and cause the bleeding. This is why it's important for women to be turned on and the importance of foreplay before having sex. The handle may also be a sharper shape, or too textured, leading to more bleeding than if a dildo were used. You did not break your vagina. The vagina is actually a muscle, it expands when something needs to pass through, and shrinks back to normal. If people can give birth to whole ass babies and their vagina can return to normal, then you did not break it with a hair brush. I recommend buying these training dildos for like $23. When I bought my first dildo a long time ago, it was WAYYY too big, and there was no way I was getting that inside. And it was a hunt to find smaller sizes. These training kits, although labeled for anal, are great for when first trying vaginal insertion, because you can start with the smaller sizes and work up. Plus, they're cheap and safe. Remember, wash before and after use. I would also encourage the use of lube. Keeping everything well lubricated will help prevent bleeding/ soreness afterward. Although if everything is TOO lubricated, you're going to lose all your friction. However, if you can only afford the dildo, saliva works great as lube! I also recommend a pack of condoms for when you're really in the mood, but you forgot to wash them after your last session, and now your parents are home/ awake and you can't. Just slap a condom on there, and you're good to go. Also when you start having sex, REMEMBER PROTECTION!!!! Girl it's not worth it. Don't be silly, wrap that willy.