VGATE vLinker FS USB FORScan OBD2 Adapter for HS/MS-CAN Auto Switch, Wire OBD2 USB FORScan Adapter Code Readers & Scanner Diagnostic Tools

Do you have a windows laptop? If so buy this: https://www.amazon.com/vLinker-USB-Programming-Modification-Hacker-Proof/dp/B0CZ92SLDY You can use that with a program called Forscan to disable start stop. Forscan costs $20 per year for the full license but they do have a free trial for 2 months that lets you do most things. This is the easiest way as far as I know.