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M78. A gentle enema beforehand will give you the confidence that you won't be a messy bottom and will help you relax for your first time. A bidet is only meant for superficial cleaning of the outer part of your anus. You could start with an inexpensive Fleet Saline Enema which comes in a 4.5 oz soft plastic bottle. Read about it here: https://www.walmart.com/ip/1115415?sid=9f6229bf-0f4e-4beb-9643-1afa484f7469 The price at Walmart online is as little as $2.44 plus tax and shipping. The price in the Walmart store is probably similar, though it might be slightly different. Or you could buy this item at your local drugstore. Prices at Walmart online are bizarre and can vary widely depending upon whether you are buying from low-cost Walmart or from a shipper which lists themselves on the Walmart website. The Fleet Saline Enema comes in a 4.5 oz soft plastic bottle which you can refill with warm water and reuse over and over again until it wears out, so save the plastic cover for the tip. You might also want to save the box for storage. You don't really need the saline contents, but if you follow the directions it shouldn't harm you. If your parents should stumble upon the Fleet Saline Enema it shouldn't arouse any suspicions about your sexuality. Have fun. You will likely remember your first time for the rest of your life, so try to make this a romantic event and take your time with lots of foreplay. I strongly recommend you always ask your sex partners to use a condom. Even if you should become exclusive boyfriends, guys sometimes wander and are tempted to have sex with someone else. Your boyfriend might not want to tell you if he has strayed. By always using condoms one eliminates the awkwardness that could arise, as well as the risk of contracting a STD. In the future please remember that PrEP (Pre-exposure Prophylaxis) drugs, such as Truvada or Descovy, only protect against the transmission of HIV/AIDS and do NOT protect against other STDs, such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis or the many intestinal parasites which can be transmitted by rimming. Although widely promoted in porn, rimming is actually a very risky practice, because even Straight people in a monogamous relationship can harbor parasites acquired during travel.