1-20 Kits 3 Pin 90980-11607 90980-11020 Automobile Wire Connector Car Waterproof Electric Cable Sealed Socket AICNRUT(Male Female Set,5Sets)

connectors This is what i ordered. Took a month to arrive from china. You'll have to build the wiring harness yourself. As for the lights there is plenty listed on amazon you can look for. Its model specific. LE/XLE and SE/XSE.