Small is relative but there's some pretty small ~180W laptop chargers out there. E.g. this Dell one: https://www.amazon.com/Dell-Laptop-Charger-Barrel-Adapter/dp/B0CL2NLR5Z There's few situations that need a very small COTS 12V 180W power supply and won't lay it out on their own PCB, so OP isn't finding much that's useful to them. If forced cooling is acceptable, server PSUs are getting ridiculous power density.
I've bought many OEM power supplies through Amazon. Though I do agree they appear to be in much more limited supply these days. Dell has 7.4mm, 4.5mm and USB C. I have no idea what you need? Here is one I recently bought for my GF G15 https://www.amazon.com/Dell-Laptop-Charger-Barrel-Adapter/dp/B0CL2NLR5Z
