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There's a book for you. I don't agree with her on everything, but Taylor Swift's lyric about her brother's thoughts on her missing exes, "eating out of the trash," is spot on. Break ups belong in the rearview mirror, because rarely the issue that causes the break up in the first place is addressed by both people. They wind up repeating the mistakes again, and then you get in this together - break up - together - break up cycle. It just needs to be done. It's okay to mourn and move on with your life eventually. It's human to feel stupid after making mistakes, but wisdom comes from experience, which is part of what you gain from these kinds of things. He's just a small chapter in your book of life, girl. And you'll be ready to turn the page to a fresh chapter soon.