Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter

Your boyfriend has ”I am the prize” syndrome (see the book Burn the Haystack by Jennie Young https://www.amazon.com/Burn-Haystack-Decode-Dating-Matter/dp/0063447576). And he is emotionally immature. He won’t change. Big hugs, because it sucks to love someone who can’t give in return.