MOWPOG 80 PCS Reflective Mailbox Numbers for Outside, 4 Inch Self Adhesive Waterproof Vinyl Number Stickers for Signs, Door, Garbage Bins, House Address

Put your address on your trash cans. Order some large vinyl number stickers and put your house number on there, on all 4 sides of the can. That might embarrass or spook her enough to deter. At the very least, it would make it easier for you to find and reclaim your trash cans, and you could photograph and document it for your HOA. Edit: bonus, it looks really nice and professional. I did it to my cans (just on the front because thankfully we only have wind and not crazy neighbors messing with them lol) and I'm weirdly proud of how it looks.