XL Body Wipes for Women, No Rinse Adult Bathing Wash Cloths - 4pk, 200 Shower Wipes + 16 Travel Bath Sheets -10"x11.5" Thick Cleansing Disposable Washcloths for Womens Hygiene & Elderly Incontinence

First, get over sized wipes, commonly called "no rinse bath wipes". I found some on Amazon. The size helps sooo much. As long as you can get her on the toilet, just have her bend forward and work front to back from behind.

Jump on YouTube and search "hospice diaper change" and there are a lot of great video's on the step by step process. Some are amateurish so you'll have to watch a couple to find good one, and that's not all bad because they all have their "tricks" that you can incorporate. Here is a link to the best one I found ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Js4atWSJu0 On the practical side ... one of the best things I found was to acquire over sized wipes ... sometimes called shower wipes as they are marketed as a shower alternative. Having a 12 x 12 wipe made a huge difference. You can find them on amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZJ1RYFZ?th=1 Amazon link