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And for those not on Fet, from u/spotswood69 I HATE it when people think pegging is exactly like porn where you can just lube up and stick it in.Pegging is NOT to be rushed! What porn does NOT show you: 1. Enemas and Making Sure You’re as Clean as Can BeThere are plenty of porn bloopers out there of people who chose not to use an enema. Don’t be one of them! I use both a shower attachment and a portable pump. I do NOT recommend pre-filled enemas sold at grocery/drug stores because they contain saline which acts as a laxative. My personal routine if I know I’m getting pegged:Use the shower enema the night before. Shower enema early in the morning. (Step 2 is if I know I’m able to mostly fast otherwise I just skip to Step 3) Occasional flushing with portable pump throughout the day. A few flushes 30-60 minutes before the deed. Recommended Enemas:Portable Pump: https://www.extremerestraints.com/pump-action-enema-bottle-with-nozzle.htmlShower Enema: https://www.extremerestraints.com/easy-flow-cleansing-kit-with-silicone-attachment.html 2. LUBE! The anus does not self-lubricate! Water based “Anal Lube” in my experience is next to worthless. Silicone lube can damage the dildo if not cleaned off quickly. The best anal lube I like to use is a hybrid silicone and water based lube. It stays slick for a while and is safe for most toys. But if you’re still concerned about the dildo possibly getting damaged, use condoms. Shit can still happen even when “cleaned out” so condoms serve another purpose. Recommended Hybrid Lubes:Sliquid: https://a.co/d/8i7AVrsJ0 Hybrid: https://a.co/d/9tiM5Mx 3. Fingers and Dilator PlugsIf you see someone taking a huge strap on in a porno, chances are they warmed up with some kind of butt plug or dilator before the cameras started rolling. Some even go as far as going to sleep with the dilator inside during the few days prior to shoot day. If I know I’m going to get pegged, I start by stretching my sphincter with my fingers and wear at least a 2.23 diameter (7 inch girth) dilator plug around for a while. I love taking girthy dildos. Recommended Dilators:Blunt Plug: https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/blunt-plug/Dilator Set: https://www.extremerestraints.com/black-anal-dilator-kit.html4. Mindset Like with most things, especially with kink, if you’re not mentally ready then it’s not going to go well.Do I need 30 minutes of blissful silence while I close my eyes? Nope. But I need to make sure I’m mentally set regardless. 5. Start Slowly and CommunicateYes, the hentais always show pegging as if the dildo is a rocket and goes in fast. To the Strapon wearer, DON’T DO THAT! Start slowly so the spinchter has time to get used to the shock and then relax. If you’re pegging me slowly and I’m saying “More”, that is my signal to you that everything is relaxed and you can go faster and more aggressively. So communication between Domme and Sub needs to be established beforehand.