LALESTE Viscose Bamboo Boxer Briefs for Women Cotton Boy Shorts Underwear Soft Stretch Boyshorts Panties 5 Pack

They make "women's" boxers! I only realized it late last year, but now they're all I wear! I'm nonbinary AFAB, but realized in my teens that I hated panties and started buying loose boxers from the "men's" section. But those aren't ideal for menstrual cycles, since I prefer pads to other options. These work great! Not sure if they'd do the trick for you, but they might make you feel less dysphoric than the baggy ones? My faves: https://a.co/d/0ezwCq67 Liked enough to keep, but they ride up my thighs more easily than the others: https://a.co/d/0diseiAs