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I have three.I have one that I mainly wear to gay male bars where I know that I will be getting groped. A lot of men have touched it through my jock and they never realize it is a packer. It is a bit bigger than I prefer for everyday wear just bc I don’t need a big bulge. That being said, if I do have dysphoria day and am wanting to have the weight in my pants, I have found that men’s briefs (or a jock) hold it in place best because the narrower pocket prevents it from rotating. Tantus packer $42 (purple bc that’s my favorite color) https://www.tantusinc.com/products/on-the-go-silicone-packer My second one is for when I don’t want my pants to be concave, but also don’t want to have heavy loose silicone in my pants. I got a bulge enhancer. It’s a foam cup with a penis extrusion on the outside. I then cut it down so that it fits more comfortably in my underwear and isn’t protruding massively from my body. This is also good for athletic pursuits and traveling. I generally don’t secure this in my underwear which means I do have to adjust it and I am sometimes worried if it looks weird when I feel it rotate. That issue could easily be solved with a safety pin. I’m just lazy. If you google it just go with one of the $4 dollar ones. My third I just got recently when I was shopping for a new foam enhancer and add popped up for a silicone version. I have only used it once, but I am looking forward to using it more. It provides a more subtle bulge than the Tantus packer, still carries a bit of weight, and has a sticky back which prevents it from rotating. It’s not an adhesive it is just sticky. It didn’t hurt to take off. I probably won’t wear it all the time as it gets a bit hotter than the other two. $14 https://a.co/d/0dKDum00 TLDR:Tantus: holds up to the touching test, shaft protrudes more than I would like for every day wear.Foam: cheapest option, is comfortable for everyday wear, can cut it to fit comfortably, will fail touch test.Silicone bulge: provides a bit of weight, will stay in place, will get hot, will fail touch test.