Kasa Smart 3 Way Dimmer Switch KIT, Dimmable Light Switch Compatible with Alexa, Google Assistant and SmartThings, Neutral Wire Needed, 2.4GHz, ETL Certified, No Hub Required, White (KS230 KIT v2)

The only ones I've used where I had neutral to the box with the switch are these https://a.co/d/0ayUsdDO They both control the same dimmed fixture and at least in Google home only have one name to control them. I think the parent company is investing more in the Tapo line, so you might find something there that is homekit comparable