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Let's first refocus your version of the story into facts. I don't think she's ruined, I think she's suffering a major setback. You've got ulcers + farrier fear (+ possible pain) to deal with. She's not feral now, she's reactive. If you don't believe me, go handle a feral horse. Your horse is good in hand but having some issues under saddle. I'd vet her, see if there's hoof pain from the farrier. If shoes were pulled or major changes, consider reshoeing and getting her comfortable asap. Look at an herbal calmer to get her back to normal emotionally. I love formula 707 calming supplement as a non prescription calmer, and relied on it after my horse was attached by a dog and my formerly easy peasy boy was just petrified of things. Here's what I use: https://a.co/d/08XO5n7i